Banter or Bullying? Know the Difference at Work
By Louise Jenner, The Dream Job Coach (Platinum Member)
In a workplace full of personalities, humour can be a great connector, but when does playful banter cross the line into something more harmful?
Here are five top tips to help you stay on the right side of that fine line:
1. Read the Room
If everyone’s laughing, it’s likely banter. If someone looks uncomfortable, it’s time to check yourself.
2. Watch the Power Balance
Jokes from the boss land differently than those from peers. Always punch up, never down.
3. Mind the Repeats
What feels like a running joke to one person can feel like repeated jabs to another.
4. Drop the Outdated Lines
Phrases like “I’m just the office mum” may seem harmless, but can reinforce tired gender roles. You’re a professional, so own it.
5. Be Willing to Mediate
If tensions rise, mediation can help. DWIB’s silver member, Serena Davis of Latitude Mediation, offers calm, confidential support to move things forward.
💡 Top Tip: Respect doesn’t kill humour – it makes it cleverer.
If you’re feeling drained by your work environment, know that you don’t have to stay stuck. I’m here to help you find a role where you’re appreciated, not diminished.
Read more about the fine line between banter and bullying in the workplace.
Louise Jenner, The Dream Job Coach
Louise Jenner, The Dream Job Coach, helps professionals and business owners create careers they truly love, whether that means landing their dream job or building a business that actually works for them. She explains:
“I know from experience that self-employment shouldn’t mean swapping one bad boss for another, especially when you’re the boss!
That’s why I help ambitious individuals like you set boundaries, pay themselves what they deserve, and lead themselves with confidence so that their work feels fulfilling (and life feels balanced).
Ready to take charge of your career or business – without burning out? Let’s talk.”
You can book a free Clarity Session at https://louisejenner.com
Author: Louise Jenner
Louise Jenner was born and raised in Devon. She is passionate about helping others to do the kind of work they love and is known as The Dream Job Coach.
